Moving Beyond FEAR | You know if I'm talking to you

Hey girly!

This morning, I just want to write from my soul.

What does fear feel like?

Whether you’re afraid of the future, of people, of situations, of things, of taking action, it doesn’t matter; fear feels debilitating.

Fear can take a bright soul, and force them to turn inward and shut off their light.

It’s funny. People tell me I’m so brave and courageous to move out to Los Angeles and start my own business. What they, and maybe you, don’t realize, is how fucking scary this all is.

Before I launch a new project, before my group calls when I need to really step my energy up, when business is slow, when I do a FaceBook live, for goodness sakes, I FEEL FEAR, and it doesn’t always creep in… Sometimes it totally white washes me.

So when future clients come to me and they’re READY to dive into their journey, I'm genuinely so excited because I know what level of bravery that takes. I know how scary it is to commit to yourself AND someone else. I know how scary it is to commit to an unknown outcome.

If you’re someone who can’t overcome that fear you feel, or maybe you don’t even admit that it’s fear of failure, then I’m talking right to you. This is my method for fighting the attempt from fear to paralyze you.

  1. I ground myself

    For me, this grounding comes from my connection to my creator, meditation,writing, etc. I create a safe space for myself and I let myself go to those places that are scary to go. When things are brought to light, they become manageable - fear included.

  2. I allow myself to be loved

    This is very different than finding sympathy. This is allowing yourself to be vulnerable and expressing your fear, but allowing someone you love to comfort you. This also makes whatever you’re facing less frightening.

  3. I FUCKING ACT ANYWAY

    MOST IMPORTANT ONE. DO NOT allow fear to paralyze you. That’s worse than acting and having the “worst outcome.”

With that…. YOU GOT THIS GIRLFRIEND

STAND BOLD and ACT

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